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Beginners Guide to Femdom Dating for Submissive Men

Myriads of decent men dream about women who are dominant partners in BDSM sexual activities. You can hardly find a male who has been hungry for power exchange practices at least once. Why do people want someone they love to hurt them mentally and physically? Psychologists may foam at the mouth in their battles by advancing theories, but who the fucks care if femdom dating makes every pore in our bodies tingles with contentment. Stop reflecting and move towards kinky adventures to enjoy a variety of fetishes.

What is Femdom Dating – Let’s Break Down Stereotypes

We often come across creepy men in women’s underwear or horny jerks who want to go down on pussy without even knowing the girl’s name. This whole thing creates a negative connotation and gives the wrong picture of what female domination, male submission, and female relationships style mean. Males don’t know how to present their desires to a woman, and that poses a serious problem for submissive men. Due to their incorrect approach imposed by the porno industry, the girls often refuse or just screw them. After many previous rejections, submissive men are afraid of expressing their fetishes since they do not understand how to handle correctly without scaring a woman away. Men fear females’ reactions, which makes them keep their feelings and fetishes inside and close their minds for a long time.

Different Sides of Femdom Dating

Femdom is sexual dominance over a man, meaning the satisfaction of each other’s sexual needs. The woman receives pleasure from domination, and the man fetishes for submission. The most important thing to remember is that femdom dating is about sexual games of partners for mutual satisfaction. Lets’ overview some of its peculiarities.

  1. Femdom might be a role-play or total slavery, and it doesn’t always involve sex. The main effect of a woman’s physiological influence on a man may take another form of behavior and environment.
  2. Submission and domination still imply mutual respect and being on the same page for getting pleasure.
  3. Femdom features several levels of development. The first stage resembles a well-mannered man who acts nicely to a lady. The higher level of femdom implies the complete obedience of a man to a woman.
  4. Femdom is not only about sadomasochism in its pure form. It includes bondage, cuckold, voyeurism, and other kinks, or, on the contrary, it might be limited to a single taboo.
  5. It is not necessary to date with strangers, swingers, or have orgies all the time. Some couples practice femdom for a variety of sex life. It might be exciting to lead a husband who looks so important and powerful in other ways.

What Kind of Submissive Man Are You?

A man must understand his hidden desires and explain to a dominatrix what he wants from her. Subs are nominally divided into several types:

  • Service subs prefer housework to sex with the doms. They will do laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc., but masturbation to a dom’s bed is the only sexual pleasure they crave.
  • Sexual submissive men adore women on top. They take orders and get a high from being used, sometimes, with particular cruelty.
  • Forced relationships mean the man’s desire to be forced to various acts, whether it is about sex, housework, or any other dom’s whims.
  • Smart-ass masochists get off on either punishment or pain, and they can even provoke their dominatrix.
  • Baby boys or age players feel satisfied to play children and teens.
  • Slaves yearn for total control over them, including intercourse and everyday activities.
  • Internet subs jam out to “remote control” and prefer virtual fun. Some of these men try to escape physical contact by nature, and others use the Internet as the starting point of their sexual journey.

How to Attract a Dominatrix?

A submissive man should realize that a mistress might not be into oral sex and intercourse. If he offers them from the start, he risks running into immediate rejection. There is no need to start begging at once at a stage of acquaintance since a woman hasn’t asked about it yet. The polite introduction is quite enough. One can message with a potential dom on the Web before a real date to clarify the nuances and set the rules.

Besides, it’s important to differ a lifestyle and professional dominatrix. The latter stay emotionally detached and might restrict you from sessions because of drooling love rubbish. A man should put the submission first but not sex. It’s critical to accept the dom’s power as the cornerstone of the session/relationships.

If a sub wants to dive into femdom dating, he should get rid of a trite vision. Dominatrix is not necessary a businessperson, assertive in everyday life, or someone who cannot live without leather boots and a corset.

Final Thoughts

Men are very excited when women dominate over them. That doesn’t mean that they are not wealthy or weak. In fact, “subjugated slaves” can present the image of strong, self-confident males in everyday life. Only a man of spirit can place a person he cares about most, i.e., themselves, in a female’s hands. So, in real life, a man is someone who wants to become a slave belonging to a woman he finds attractive and impulsive. He introduces her to his own fantasies and then tries to convince her to be with him.

It’s like being in the army. A man who wants to become a soldier may like the idea of that, and he has his own vision of what “cool things” he will do there. However, once there, he has to follow the rules, swallow his pride, and do whatever he’s told.